Did it again!!

[Calley]

Did it again!! Got wrapped up in ANOTHER depressed guy. We've been dating for a while and I just learned that he has been battling depression for the past 6 years and is getting back on his feet. Unexpectedly saw my ex today, too...he was ANOTHER depressed guy who drank and smoked a lot of pot. I didn't know this about him until we dated for a while and it all unfolded. How do I change my energy to NOT attract depressed guys? I am very gregarious and vivacious and very social...I am compassionate and a good listener..maybe I should just NOT care or listen ?? What should I change, Fo??

[cruey]

Start dating fat guys like me

[Seang]

sounds like they need to grow a pair. depressed? wtfever. grow UP.

[euler]

make me fag.

[prince]

i don't give a shit what you do. it's your life!

[thrift]

thanks then don't tell depressed people to grow a pair... because it takes more than growing a pair to overcome life's problems.

[schuchard]

yeah, it takes them dealing with the issue at hand.... ugh.. clearly there is a disagreement here. i can't help that i see it as a weakness.

[Louis-Rene]

lose weight

[fanara]

WOW did i strike a nerve or what? deal with your issues and live your life. fuck.

[Ellis]

umm...that is NOT what depression is about :-/

[Madlen]

It's about feeling sorry for yourself all the

[medley]

no...sorry but not always true and if you never suffered it, you have no bloody clue

[marrow]

in a lot of cases it is. imo. you can trace back in somoenes life where it starts.... sorry if i strike a nerve. my mom and i disagree on this stongly too. :/

[reseda]

well then, i guess I must grow up then according to you...sorry but, since i have been there, i know what I am talking about and it is NOT about growing up...and this is one thing you and I will never agree on and yes, it struck a nerve because it is not true!

[meyerhoff]

sorry we can't agree.